Families

Integrative Therapy for Sustainable Growth

Pacific Quest’s unique model empowers participants to build and sustain healthy relationships—not just during the program but for the rest of their lives. We don’t just help participants work through a single crisis or point in time. We rely on integrative therapy to build stronger families and lasting support systems for sustainable growth.

What Family Involvement Looks Like

PARENT CURRICULUM

A comprehensive parent curriculum underpins a learning experience for the whole family. The parent manual provides a deep dive into how to support students at each point of the journey, common challenges, parallel therapeutic assignments for families, and examples of letters from past students and families.

PARENT COACHING

A weekly coaching series lead by Dr. Gent provides families with education, support and community.

WEEKLY LETTER WRITING

Right from the beginning, we practice mindful communication. Students write and receive letters from their families (electronically). This process aims to replace reactive or superficial communication with a meaningful and thoughtful dialog. Therapists support families and their students to hone their communication skills with coaching and guidance along the way.

WEEKLY DISCOVERY CALLS

Each week, guardians have an hour-long discovery call with their student’s primary therapist. These discussions help guide the individualized therapeutic approach. When ready, students join these calls and build on the communication skills they’ve been developing through the letter-writing process.

WEEKLY FAMILY THERAPY

Once students have settled into the routine (usually by week 2), they start weekly 90 video family therapy calls. This is an opportunity to further individualize their journey, practice supportive communication, and explore deeper topics.

OPTIONAL PARENT PROGRAM

Towards the end of the experience, we invite families to join us in Hawaii for an optional three day intensive. More than a chance to see how their child and their crops have grown, it’s a chance to practice and exercise the skills and insights developed. The individual, group, and private time helps to concretize the journey. (This service is offered for an additional fee)

WEEKLY PHOTOS

Harvesting an exotic fruit that takes two years to mature, sharing a yoga mat with a goat, and experiencing the magic of swimming with a sea turtle are all part of the PQ joy. A weekly photo album gives families a glimpse into the experience.

BUILDING SUPPORT SYSTEMS

Having a robust support system outside of the program is the most crucial aspect of continued success. Our therapists work with Educational Consultants, previous and current treatment providers, and school personnel as needed to develop comprehensive follow-up plans.

The Role of Family Involvement

We understand that our students don’t suffer in a vacuum. Their families also experience the pain of their setbacks and the joy of their success. Family involvement enhances communication, increases empathy, and develops usable conflict resolution skills. Because, ultimately, for the family to thrive, every individual needs to practice understanding and trust.

The Role of Family Involvement

We understand that our students don’t suffer in a vacuum. Their families also experience the pain of their setbacks and the joy of their success. Family involvement enhances communication, increases empathy, and develops usable conflict resolution skills. Because, ultimately, for the family to thrive, every individual needs to practice understanding and trust.

integrative therapy; family group hug
integrative therapy; families at garden

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L Loucks
April 13, 2026
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After 3 years of school avoidance, residential and hospital stays, screen addiction and risky behavior, we didn't know how to help or talk to our 16 year old daughter. Pacific Quest seemed different from other programs we had considered for her, so we were hopeful for some positive change when we sent her 5 thousand miles away. After the first few weeks it was clear that the program and clinical staff were even better than we had hoped. Their holistic approach to health, emphasizing healthy diet, sleep, exercise and time in nature, balancing meds and supplements had an immediate positive impact. The care, kindness and respect that the highly qualified clinical team showed our daughter, allowed her to trust and be vulnerable in her individual therapy as well as our family sessions. She learned so much about herself, her emotions and how to manage them, while we learned about better ways to communicate with her, within our family and how to repair broken trust. She is now attending an alternative boarding school, and for the first time in a long time, we are optimistic for her future. Hawaii is a magical place, and all the staff at PQ, the therapists, medical team and program team make Pacific Quest a truly magical healing place. I highly recommend it.
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N Dalton
February 26, 2026
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Our teen is currently in his 8th week at Pacific Quest and we have been very happy with the care and support he has received so far. We have seen significant progress since he first started the program. His therapist is a good fit and we receive feedback each week about our son's progress. I am glad that we chose this program with the help of an educational consultant.
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D Custin
February 2, 2026
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Pacific Quest is a blessing, a God-send. At first I was against an RTC placement & the long distance from mainland USA. However, PQ has a team of exceptional, experienced, well-trained, & loving personnel. In about 90 days, they achieved clear & immense progress for my child & me. Where once I had little to no hope for a positive relationship with my child, now hope is clear for our short-term & long-term relationship. PQ is a blessing & well-worth the costs, aka investment.
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Marg
January 15, 2026
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Highly reccomend Pacific Quest for families with kids with behavioral issues. I dont believe in miracles, but how they ve helped us with my child and whole family dynamics is close to a miracle.
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K Patruznick
December 18, 2025
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Overall, we were satisfied with the level and type of treatment our daughter received at PQ. This was a necessary step after we had tried many other avenues to help her stabilize. We appreciated the holistic approach to medicine, food and supplements to help support a healthier way of living. The therapy and group interaction was also very helpful. Aside from our daughter's treatment, we, as parents were also following a parallel process to rethink the family dynamic. It was almost as much about our daughter as it was about us. Lots of parent groups, calls and family therapy to change our approach and learn how to handle situations in a better way. About 2/3 of the way thru the 90 day program, we attend the Family Program (Fam Pro) 3 day intensive. It turned out to be a very valuable use of time and allowed our family to connect and understand each other much differently. We really connected with Dr. Rob Gent and this provided a path to deeper understanding of our daughter and her mindset. There were a few bumps in the road and not everything PQ did was perfect. Nobody is, I suppose. But we provided feedback to them and hopefully they can learn new ways as well. We all can...